growth – let the doors open for you.

Growth. It comes knocking in so many different ways throughout our lives. You see it coming your way, you know opening that door for yourself will open up so many opportunities and chances for yourself, but you don't. It sometimes presents itself in the most obvious way, according to society. From finally getting that promotion … Continue reading growth – let the doors open for you.

Why me? – over and over again.

Why me? "Why did they get the promotion when I know I've been putting in more work?" "Why does it have to rain when I have to run errands" "Why does it feel like the entire world is out to get me" Here's news, the entire world is not out to get you. I know, … Continue reading Why me? – over and over again.

social anxiety – i dont belong here.

Social Anxiety. The type of anxiety no one seems to think is real, that is if you don't have it. And if you do, it's a bit too real. "A social phobia, a type of anxiety disorder that causes extreme fear in social settings", says Google. If you struggle with it, and you've just read … Continue reading social anxiety – i dont belong here.

letting go – easier said than done.

Letting go. One more thing in life that's easier said than done. To let something escape, to let it free or even free yourself from it. Often times than not, one of the hardest, most complicated, complex, hurtful, brutal, emotional, excruciating task to carry out. You get the gist of it. We're taught to let … Continue reading letting go – easier said than done.

Overthinking – silent but deadly

Overthinking. Defined by Google as, when you dwell or worry about the same thought repeatedly. Now let me enlighten you with my definition of this struggle. It's worrying about the same thought repeatedly, yes, but when it's the same thought for hours, and then for days, maybe even weeks, it can paralyze you. Essentially, eat … Continue reading Overthinking – silent but deadly

Expectations – no, thank you.

Expectations. A strong belief that something will happen or be the case, according to google. Expectations are put on us by everyone around us at every stage of life. The right age to graduate from college, the right period of your life to start building your career, finding the individual you're going to spend the … Continue reading Expectations – no, thank you.

Kindness – Dear me, myself and i.

Kindness. Specifically, towards yourself from yourself. More often than not, we don't give ourselves enough. Be it the way we were raised, our various environments growing up or the people we've met along the way that have influenced the way we are today. There are an endless amount of factors that contribute to the issue. … Continue reading Kindness – Dear me, myself and i.

Our circle – Are they really for me?

Our circle.  The people we keep closest to us, the people we go to when we're in need, the same people we know will never leave.  Your circle consists of the people you know no matter what, will always stick by you. From something as simple as needing them to help you pay for your … Continue reading Our circle – Are they really for me?

Dealing with a rough period – Will I make it out?

Getting back up, when you're certain you can't.

Goals – Set by me, for me.

Goals. We grow up with everyone around us telling us to have them for ourselves. To dream big, to shoot for the stars, and to work hard to achieve those goals we've set for ourselves. If you've gone through most of your life without any, that's okay. Most of us are exactly where you are, … Continue reading Goals – Set by me, for me.